THE

PARENT PODCAST

Ending Intersex Stigma with Compassion:

A Doctor’s Path to Empowerment

with Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison

Key Points

From This Episode:

01:57 - A Mother’s Journey

10:17 - Healing, Tools, and Community

21:18 - Facts, Warning Signs, and What to Do

Resources from

this episode:

  • Connect With Kerry Kirsch Here

  • Join Our Facebook Group Here

  • Learn More About CourTools Here

  • Learn More About Cour Experience Here

Show Notes

In this moving episode of the Warrior Parent podcast, Marci and Debbie welcome trauma psychologist and spiritual integration expert Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison, co-author of I, Seana. Together they explore Seana’s extraordinary journey as a homeless intersex woman living with schizophrenia, the community that rallied around her, what it really means to be intersex, and why ending non-consensual “normalizing” surgeries matters. This heartfelt, spiritually grounded conversation offers parents practical, compassionate ways to support neurodivergent individuals, foster inclusion, and turn pain into purpose.

Why It Matters

Marci and Debbie sit down with mom and advocate, Kerry Kirsch, who shares the heartbreaking story of losing her firstborn son, Bevin, to suicide just days after his 18th birthday. Kerry opens up about the shock, the year-long blur of grief, the profound guilt and anger, and the unexpected kindness of a doctor who offered compassion and education when she needed it most. She reflects on faith as a lifeline, the “one pick at a time” iceberg metaphor that helped her move through the pain, and the reminder that there’s no true closure—only a lifelong relationship with loss. Kerry also shares Bevin’s warmth and kindness, urging parents to stay present, prioritize connection, and pay attention to subtle changes in their kids.

Healing, Tools, and Community

Kerry talks about rebuilding a life after devastating loss—leaving her home, navigating divorce, leaning on family, and seeking therapy. She found purpose in creativity, learning to make moccasins with a cousin and later teaching the craft to teens in youth centers and detention facilities—helping young people experience accomplishment and value with their own hands. Marci and Debbie also introduce resources to support mental wellness, including the CourTools app (lifetime early-adopter access) and their Facebook community, From Chaos to Calm: A Sanctuary for Moms—safe spaces to learn, practice tools, and connect with others who care.

Facts, Warning Signs, and What to Do

The hosts close with hard truths and hope. They discuss recent statistics, the disproportionate impact on men, the role of firearms, and how isolation and harmful cultural norms can intensify risk. They outline warning signs like hopelessness, “leaking” intent, giving away possessions, withdrawal, and sudden calm after a period of deep distress. They offer clear, actionable guidance: ask directly about suicidal thoughts, assess for a plan, remove access to lethal means when safe to do so, stay with the person, and bring in professional support. Kerry welcomes connection from listeners who need a compassionate ear and shares her email on the show. Above all, the message is consistent: you matter, you’re not alone, and together we can make it through—one small step at a time.

If you or someone you know needs help, call or text 988 (US/Canada). For LGBTQIA+ support, contact The Trevor Project at 1-866-488-7388 or text START to 678-678.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode! This podcast is dedicated to supporting families through the ups and downs of parenting and mental wellness. We know how tough it can be to raise kids in today’s world, but you don’t have to do it alone. Join us and let’s lift each other up.

With love,

Marci & Debbie

THE

PARENT PODCAST

A Mother’s Journey - Turning Indescribable Grief Into Action

with Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison

Show Notes

In this moving episode of the Warrior Parent podcast, Marci and Debbie welcome trauma psychologist and spiritual integration expert Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison, co-author of I, Seana. Together they explore Seana’s extraordinary journey as a homeless intersex woman living with schizophrenia, the community that rallied around her, what it really means to be intersex, and why ending non-consensual “normalizing” surgeries matters. This heartfelt, spiritually grounded conversation offers parents practical, compassionate ways to support neurodivergent individuals, foster inclusion, and turn pain into purpose.

Key Points

From This Episode:

01:57 - A Healer’s Origin Story

10:17 - Seana’s Story: Intersex, Schizophrenia, and Community Transformation

21:18 - Takeaways, Tools, and How to Get Involved

Resources from

this episode:

  • Connect With Soul Wise Team Here

  • Follow Soul Wise Team Here

  • Learn More About the Book Here

  • Join Our Facebook Group Here

  • Learn More About CourTools Here

  • Learn More About Cour Experience Here

A Healer’s Origin Story

Marci and Debbie welcome trauma psychologist and spiritual integration expert Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison, founder of Soulwise Solutions. Dr. Kirsten shares her humanitarian roots, the influence of her parents’ resilience and philanthropy, and the personal losses and relationships that drew her into trauma work, near-death studies, and complex mental health—ultimately shaping her integrative, heart-forward approach. She reflects on how purpose, inclusion, and compassion have guided her path from the playground to the therapy room and beyond.

Seana’s Story: Intersex, Schizophrenia, and Community Transformation

Dr. Kirsten recounts meeting Seana, a beloved La Jolla community figure who spent years unhoused and living with schizophrenia—and who later learned she is intersex. Their friendship sparked a grassroots response that moved Seana into stable housing and inspired a broader community to embrace understanding over fear. Together, they advocate for ending non-consensual intersex surgeries and replacing stigma with dignity, choice, and education. Dr. Kirsten explains how reframing schizophrenia as a form of neurodivergence and simple human connection—like greeting Seana by name—can de-escalate distress and affirm personhood. Their co-authored book, I, Seana, chronicles Seana’s resilience and the power of being seen.

Takeaways, Tools, and How to Get Involved

This episode invites listeners to lead with empathy: stay open, say yes to the nudge to help, and trust that meaningful action—however small—matters. Explore I, Seana (available via Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or at soulwisesolutions.com) and join the Warrior Parent community. Try the CourTools app (Apple App Store and Google Play) to build daily mind-body practices, and connect with fellow moms in the Facebook group “From Chaos to Calm: A Sanctuary for Moms.”

Thank you so much for listening to this episode! This podcast is dedicated to supporting families through the ups and downs of parenting and mental wellness. We know how tough it can be to raise kids in today’s world, but you don’t have to do it alone. Join us and let’s lift each other up.

With love,

Marci & Debbie

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We're on a mission to educate, inspire and transform lives, ages 4-104 using basic scientifically proven methods and tools to decrease stress, anxiety and to increase resiliency and overall well-being.

2882 Prospect Park Dr. Suite 100,

Rancho Cordova, CA 95670

(916) 340-5252

© 2019 Cour Experience Inc. All Rights Reserved.

Non-Profit 501c3 EIN: 84-3383699